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Saturday 17 May 2014

Being Aware Spiritually Certainly Has It’s Pluses


Written by Mathew Naismith

The following is an extract from a discussion separate to the normal discussion about spirituality but ended up being spiritually orientated due to the way we react when we feel violated in some way. Being aware spiritually certainly has it’s pluses.  

Zinga
Anything that disrupts the balance in your life becomes a spiritual matter in that we are forced to work on restoring faith in people, seeking forgiveness, peace & harmony in life ...
As mentioned above, an alarm system is a good investment - costly though if you cannot afford the service ...
I had my jewelry & many other valuables stolen by both sides of our family during my husband's funerary week ...
I pray alot & cope w/my anger as best I can; its helpful ...
At this point, I live with it ok - maybe once a year a reminder sparks a flame I have to deal with at the moment ...
I see this as one of those learning lessons that will be w/me for the rest of my life, so I will have to make peace w/it during the course of my life ...
Only time will tell when it will be resolved ...
Peace be w/you ...

Me
Family can test us out to the max. I recently had a brother of mine wrong my wife & I after we helped him after his separation, he even coaxed me into lying for him at one stage which I'm so dead against.

What I do is accept my anger & obvious hurt, it's human nature to feel like this, however I also try to become aware of action reaction, push & pull. Is there a purpose to reacting angrily & hurtfully to such actions? I don’t usually see a purpose other than to make myself miserable.

My wife & I have a saying, “it just is what it is when it is, it just is”. We feel hurt & anger when done wrong too but because we accept it as being (it just is) we are no longer adding to the action reaction, push & pull effect, to the best of our ability.

Try not to judge their actions & your reactions too harshly which is easier said than done, try to remember it just is & you will find you won’t be suckered into a reaction that isn’t doing you any good what so ever.

Much Blessings Zinga